Some of the most aggressive, confrontational people I’ve met have also been the most insecure and ineffective. And some of the nicest ones have been hiding the most anger and pain. Then there’s those genuinely peaceful ones.
Every day you choose one of three paths as you face your circumstances:
Control. In your own strength, you try to overwhelm people with your personality, and push them to do whatever you need to alleviate your fears. Whether you’re passive–aggressive, or blatantly hostile, you’ll use up those you can manipulate, and despise those you can’t.
Run. Avoid anything and anyone that can make you afraid, stressed, or hurt. Stuff your own identity down, keep relationships shallow, and deflect every opportunity for intimacy. Settle for living vicariously through social media and TV. You’ll never rest as you constantly look for ways to protect yourself.
Or . . .
Peace. You know you’re not alone, and are completely loved by God. He’s with you in everything you think, say, and do. You’re invited each day to see everyone and every situation from his perspective. You have total access to his grace, hope, peace, faith, wisdom, and joy. You can be both bold and restful, in ways that energize and encourage others, instead of pushing them away. You are truly confident, productive, inspiring, and powerful—not because you have control, or can’t be hurt, but because you’re learning to engage life from love, instead of striving for it.
Equip Your Spirit 