Reacting to People or Responding to God

I know it may seem oversimplified to say you shouldn’t let your emotional and spiritual state be determined by what others say and do. You know that. You’ve posted memes about it. But when life gets difficult, it’s still so easy to forget.

Rather than growing as you respond to God, you constrain your identity reacting to people. In continually stressful circumstances, you end up focusing more on protecting yourself from the negatives in others, instead of relating to them as God says they are.

When you keep paying more attention to what could go wrong, rather than to what God says is possible, you end up sabotaging your relationships. Even the most positive models get twisted out of balance, put on impossible pedestals from which your peace becomes subject to their choices. If they fail to live up to your expectations, the void left will demand you find something—anything—to make you feel secure again, which almost always comes wrapped in bitterness and isolation.

Even if it hasn’t seemed like it lately, Jesus is still where he’s always been, right there with you. Give him the freedom to speak into every part of your life, renewing your thoughts, and healing your heart. Hear what he’s saying about who you are in him, and who he wants to be for you right now. The peace, wholeness, and love only he can give will empower you to see yourself and your relationships as he does again. You’ll have the grace to receive well from good models, discard worthless words from negative ones, and to bless every one of them.

“Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen and help you” (Isaiah 41:10a).

One Reply to “Reacting to People or Responding to God”

  1. Rob this is excellent. Its exactly what I needed to hear. Gods timing continues to amaze me.
    Thanks for sharing.

    Leslie Brabandt

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